#1 [ He Too ] An Unheard Voice
An endeavour by Rudrabha Mukherjee to extend moral support to the male victims of harassment, stalking, bullying, discrimination, etc.
Originally published on May 24, 2022. This is the archived version (link) of this article so that this article must remain alive even if powerful people may try to remove or delete it from everywhere to suppress my voice.
Legal Disclaimer(s) - Read here and also refer the image given below as well.
An appeal to the reader. Kindly be respectful and kind to all.
[ Trigger Warning ] Content Warning: This article (may) contains mentions of abuse.
I am Rudrabha Mukherjee, and I strongly believe that men are also victims of abuse.
Men are also victims of trauma.
Men also face emotional stress.
Men also face several forms of discrimination and violence.
Men also need support. Who will become the voice for men’s rights?
Now let’s have a quick look into some data, reports, stats, etc. which are available in the public domain.
You can refer the comprehensive report by Telegraph India on - Men can be victims too of harassment by women.
Do you remember the incidents of Sarvjeet Singh, Kamaraj, and Priyadarshini?
Now, why am I raising my voice for men’s rights? Why am I starting this initiative of - [ He Too ] An Unheard Voice? What’s the reason!
The reason is now I can feel the pain of other male victims of the harassment too upto a little extent. Now, I also have become a victim of the same.
Here are the details of the same.
I am involved in several kind of activism and hence I always try to help and support other people as a brother.
As you can see in the following archived (public domain) source - A girl virtual sister Atlanta Priyadarsini Sarma (daughter of SIKHA SARMA who is as per news media reports a famous writer from Guwahati, India) approached me (note - sharing just as an example and the following is NOT the first interaction) for some help and I replied to her as a brother.
[ Image Courtesy to verify (snapshot of a public interaction): Source - 1 • Source - 2 • (around) May 21, 2021 ]
She called me brother in 2023 as well. Proof 👇🏽 (note: it is a heavy gif/video file hence it will take some time to appear/load)
Source: https://archive.is/K1GbC
Anyway,
Mark my words (with reference to the above pic):
She will quote or reply to these tweets of 2021 in 2022 (and/or later) to portray something otherwise. That is why I had archived the links.
Suddenly, I came across following incidents and reports that she started threatening and harassing my circle of knowns and my contacts too on Twitter, WhatsApp, etc.
I never gave her my WhatsApp number on my own at first,
and I blocked her
almost everywhere around the middle of 2021 (because till then I supported her and trusted her like my virtual sister), but she somehow obtained my WhatsApp number from my circle (without my knowledge or consent) THROUGH A WHATSAPP CONFERENCE CALL (NOTE - I HAD NEVER SHARED MY WHATSAPP NUMBER WITH HER FOR THE SAME) and began messaging me on WhatsApp since then, and I told her that I don't know what she consider me as a human, but I always tried to help her as a virtual brother. Also, I requested her to delete my photos, which she got through an indirect form of cyber stalking. I also requested her (on WhatsApp, 2021 in writing) to not stalk me, not tag me, to not use my images or contents of any kind, and to not harass me in the future.
Long story short,
Then after few months I received several direct messages on Twitter that she was using my pics and tagging me in her tweets even after getting blocked by me.
Reference(s)
So, around April 10, 2022, I raised this issue on Twitter to Hon'ble Delhi Police which is as follows.
But, to my surprise, some people who were protesting the injustice which happened to an another young man came to her aid, convincing me not to file a police report against her because, after all, she is a woman. And it is perfectly alright if she is using images of me without my consent, and even after my written disagreement.
A random public domain reference just for the sake of an example.
The most interesting part was that those who (those people of the justice campaign, of which I am also a part) preach on social media that "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere" were seeing all this as mute spectators.
On the other side she continued harassing me like the following.
Around March 09, 2022
Just see her thoughts for someone (me) whom she used to call her brother once.
And see the following tweet of May 11, 2022.
Where she said that I was like her brother till May, 2021 and then…
she changed her feelings for her virtual brother that is me.
And recently on May 24, 2022,…
She shared her thoughts for me publicly by tagging me whom she called her brother for several months (till the end of May, 2021).
Just see. This is an harassment.
And here is how she stalked me on Twitter even after getting blocked.
She first directly/indirectly stalked my twitter profile. Then she copied the link of my tweet. Wrote some text & tagged my handle, pasted the link of my tweet, and then she tweeted it so that it can appear like a quote tweet over my own tweet. Refer the following image.
All these are the clear cases of cyber harassments and cyber stalking.
Reference(s)
Guess what! she (this virtual sister) continued all these harassments… no one (as long as my memory is serving right) called her to stop all these but people called me and convinced me to not take legal action against her because she is a woman. And also to tolerate these injustices silently.
Why? Just because of the fact that I am a man!
These things reminded me of the following recent incident of Johnny Depp.
Still after all these I have decided that instead of giving up I will take a stand for my self and other men (male victims) as well like a responsible human being under this initiative of - [ He Too ] An Unheard Voice.
A Shocking Observation
Recently, I came across several public domain information as per which virtual sister Atlanta Priyadarsini Sarma had allegedly harassed other people on the internet as well. Kindly have a look into some references as given below.
The Outcome Of Taking Stand
People who truly understand the quote "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere", had extended moral support to the people who got harassed.
Raj Thakur thanked me for bringing out the reality.
Source: Twitter
Reportedly, a Twitter user named Tina said that she unfollowed Atlanta Priyadarsini Sarma on Twitter.
Source: Twitter
Reportedly, Bhavna di (sister) advised me to stay away from such kind (Atlanta kind) of people.
Source: Twitter
Reportedly, an account named Rim Jhim requested Atlanta sister to stop harassing peopl on internet. Also, Rim Jhim reportedly alleged that Atlanta Priyadarsini Sarma knows the following without a reason.
Source: Twitter
Source: Twitter
A Strange Pattern (based on aforementioned evidence and reports)
Though virtual sister Atlanta Priyadarsini Sarma pretends that she wants justice for Sushant Singh Rajput, whether on the ground or digitally, on the contrary, she has allegedly and/or reportedly harassed or targeted SSRians and justice (for Sushant Singh Rajput sir) seekers so far.
Note: Reportedly (public domain info.) her family member(s) supported the #JusticeForRhea campaign and campaign against Arnab Goswami through tweets or by liking such tweets in 2020.
Also, one of her family member is a member of the political party who supported Rhea Chakraborty.
Here you can get the evidences of the aforementioned claims.
Anyway, after all these I have decided that I will take stand for other men (male victims) like a responsible human being under this initiative of - [He Too] An Unheard Voice
I am grateful to you for your time.
Kind Regards,
